One of my favorite measures of “well-being” is eating and appetite; when we are happy and contented, most of us enjoy eating and sharing meals with friends and family. When anxiety and depression set in, this simple and universal pleasure is lost to us.
A recent piece in the New York Times shows families of all types eating together and enjoying the “feeling that everything is going to be all right, if only for the moment”. The photos are by Stephanie Sinclair and text by Sam Sifton.
Our family, like many these days, does not gather together often enough because of international travel for work and the life styles of our extended families. We did recently have my husband and his three siblings gathered in our house and our daughter who has severe autism was able to join us.
We had been warned by her staff at her group home that she had been unstable and dangerous after a recent medication change. They advised us not to bring her home for this gathering. What a mistake that would have been. In the loving arms of her family, eating, talking and laughing about good memories, her anxieties melted away and we enjoyed the best times for a long time, all with family.
If only we did not all live on opposite ends of the earth…